Returning to the original question: the proper course of action would be to report it, not complain, to the lifeguard or the pool management. Preceptions of perversion vary from person to person as this thread shows.
Having said that, this post brought back a twenty-five year old memory. For a several month stretch of time, a lady came to lap swim. She had the habit of having the top of her suit slip past her breasts. She would continue swimming for the duration of her workout. Could I not look? Obviously, I did. (I tried to avoid goggle to goggle contract... but I had a hard time not looking her way) I rationalized it this way: I could not imagine that she did not know she was swimming bare-breasted. So, it seemed that she was asking all the other lap swimmers to look. Now, who would be the pervert in this situation? If a man exposes himself, it's more perverted that if a woman exposes herself. Actually, what's perverted and what's not depends on who gets offended. In the original situation of this thread, it seemed like a third party got more offended than the actual participants. That's why it would be best to let a fourth party, like a lifeguard or pool manager, decide any appropriate action.
That's another 2¢...
Peace,
Glen
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