I was trying to give you ladies a little time to see if you like his personality, and not just his "personality". OK then, 10 seconds it is. Thanks for tipping your hand. You've just absolved every man on earth from having to spend any more money on dinner and a movie. From now on, we're just going to show up to your door, give you a moment to look us over, shrug our shoulders, and with a pained look of optimism, say "eh?".
