Advice to a bloke about to get married!

[OceanSwimmer]

-"it is easier to ask forgiveness than permission."--rigdvr


Sven is right.
When you stop telling the truth and withold being your genuine self, the relationship is over.

"Honesty, no matter what the gain, is alway the best policy." --Mark Twain (?)

I would accuse men of being genetically predisposed to behavior that is willfully contentious....except women act the same!


Best of Luck to you and your Bride, Sharkey!

[willsrn]

Just teach her how to dive. Then you won't be able to keep her away and dragging you along.

[icarus pacific]

...when in Rome...


sven

[ghost_flash]

Get married to her then.

If this is seriously going to affect you then I have the following bit of advice.

1. This is the only life you will have this lifetime.
2. You came into this world one person, and goto 3.
3. You will be leaving this world on a solo as well.

I have a question:

- What is it that she cannot live without?
- Now ask her to live without it. Could you do that?
- If so,

- You belong together.

- else,

- You are with the wrong person, or just a selfish one whom has little understanding of who you are.

Let me expand on this and argue the point of religion.

She is religion A.
You are religion B.

Does she have the right to ask you to not observe your
religous beliefs? Do you her?
Now this is without any children in the picture, yes?
If there are going to be, do they observe hers or yours?

This is obviously a big part of who you are, so why on earth would she want to CHANGE that? She changes that, and then
she changes you, the person she wants to be with will be different!

Whatever the choices you make,
make sure you can live with them for the rest of your life.

And the truth shall set you free!

-Jim Carey "Liar, Liar"