I can see both sides of the story - many animals in captivity have long and happy lives, without predators, lack of food, bad weather etc., but I have also seen the terrible suffering caused to animals by the pet trade, when people don't know how to look after them properly or don't bother to find out.
I have kept pets for all my life, all sorts ranging from insects to fish to birds, and they have mostly bred successfully and lived to a good age.
As for the feelings of fish, I have this quote from the book "King Solomon's Ring" by the renowned animal behaviourist Konrad Lorenz:
"And regarding the alleged cold-bloodedness of fishes; I am familiar with many animals and with their behavior in the most intimate situations of their life, in the wild ecstasies of the fight and of love, but, with the exception of the wild canary, I know of no animal that can excel in hot-bloodedness a male stickleback, a Siamese fighting fish or a cichlid."
I think this is true, having observed many kinds of fish, and he is also right about the canary.
He also says:
"A man can sit for hours before an aquarium and stare into it as into the flames of an open fire or the rushing waters of a torrent. All conscious thought is happily lost in this state of apparent vacancy, and yet, in these hours of idleness, one learns essential truths about the macrocosm and the microcosm. If I cast into one side of the balance all that I have learned from the books of the library and into the other everything that I have gleaned from the "books in the running brooks", how surely would the latter turn the scales."
I have spent a large part of my life like that, both outdoors and indoors. There are countless things I have seen, far too much to write here.
If you are planning to have an aquarium, please find out as much as possible about the types of fish you are going to keep and whether they are suitable or not, and good luck!
Lucia