Clavin,
I'm warmed by all the great responses given and I am absolutely sure everybody here is meaning well, I hope you understand and can appreciate that we here try to honour your questions with the best advice we know to your question.
I too try to have an understanding of your current you, and the question you
really have.
At the first glance your question makes me feel very worried, even fearful. I imagine a young inexperienced, ignorant, inpatient guy about to jump a ledge because he wants to know where his BO limit is. You see how that image generates great concern within others? Later you
nuance your question asking how to know your limit.
Context is important. The way and the type of questions you ask hints me you are not very experienced. It also indicates me you are eager to learn and you are willing to invest much in knowing where your limit is.
Freediving is a unique sport where counter to most other sports,
less force is the way to reach more.
Freediving is also a very difficult sport because it is hard to determine your limit of the day.
Just having a BO is not going to help you understand your limit.
Why?
Because of a lack of mental and physical relaxation in this unknown territory, you will have a very short and unobservable transition between the contraction phase and the Black out.
It simply goes too fast to learn anything from it.
My suggestion is to explore your body, mind and reactions VERY gradually.
You may find the following:
Swallowing effect.
Diaphragm contractions.
maybe "Double" diaphragm contractions.
Trembling body part(s) (partial LMC)
Greying and tunnel vision. (starting About 10 second before BO in very experienced freedivers)
Loss of Motor Control.
B.O.
The only way to explore the symptoms is to very carefully and gradually walk into the unknown and observe.
You cannot observe when you don't have control over your mind or are
totally focussed on holding your breath.
I hope this clears up some of the mystique.
Consider your current level I recommend fist to do more table A in bed. Learn to relax even with high CO2. This will give you more relaxation and mental control in the contraction riding phase. When you're able to do that with a 2' base time, Table B becomes a good way to gradually explore further. Do 1 table everyday, but keep yourself hydrated and in good rested shape. When your times and skills progress you'll find you need more recovery and rest too. Take notes of your training and observations. Often things are different and change, and that's what makes feeling your limit so difficult in freediving.
Now doing table A and B in bed, with very small steps, is a more educational way, but I still recommend you to do a course and explore with the help of a wise instructor.
I know blunt force is an appealing way to many impatient, but it is elegance and tact that yields the satisfying experience.
Kars