Ok, just to help to hopefully clear up a few things - I hope I get it right this time
Chest and diaphragm flexibility is important.
You can and will reach a level of flexibility and relaxation that will dissolve the 'pressure' feeling on the body. This will allow you to dive with comfort easily below Residual Volume (RV).
Now the difficulty is to have some air to push to ears when you're below RV depth, the depth where you can no longer use your diaphragm to push air down into your nose and mouths. There are two techniques that allow us to dive and equalise below RV: Reverse packing and 'the mouth full". The reverse packing is the most hazerdous, creating a vacuum in the mouth sucking the last air to the mouth when everything is already so empty and under tension. The second technique, mouth full, means you fill up your mouth with air BEFORE you get to RV depth. After you closed your throat you use the air in your mouth to equalise and let the diaphragm and chest relax as you hit RV and sink beyond.
When to take your "mouthful" ?
Well, lets add some numbers.
Total Lung capacity: 6 L
Residual Volume: 2L
Now with full lungs you'll hit RV at 20m (3 bar)
Maybe you can hold 250ML of air in your mouth, so you should take your mouthful 6/2.25 =2,667 Bar, = @ 16,6M
Now for practice, learning all the intricacies I suggest you dive with near full lungs, and already start with a mouthful at the surface, do a couple of equalisations, and take another mouthful, more equalisations, more mouthfuls. Go down slow in FIM with fins on taking your time to practice the mouthful technique. When you got it, you can test it, doing only the last mouthful and let yourself sink a few meters beyond RV, where you stop, relax and see how everything is working for your body. You can expect to feel tight in the chest and diaphragm, but with focus and practice this will dissolve with time. At the same time you got some nice cheeks full of air allowing you to equalise your ears without stressing and harming the lungs with the force you used to need to get that last bit of air up.
This is the moment your freediving enters a new level of depth, below RV.
Now you can equalise beyond RV!
With time and practice your skills, flexibility, timing will improve the technique allowing you to take bigger mouthful's at greater depths.
To follow the example of this calculation, a mouth volume of 0,25L at 3 bar is still 0,125L at 6 bar (50m!) Granted you'll loose some air for your sinuses and ears, but you see that you can really go deep with just a mouthful of air to equalise.
When you take your 0,250 L at 10m (2 bar) you still would have 0,083 L minus the air needed for the ears.
Just imaging you'll be able to do the same fill at 25m or 30m?
Mouthful technique Advantages:
The mouthful allows you to relax all the big chest and diaphragm muscles beyond the RV depth. Increasing overall relaxation and energy conservation greatly! Your glide phase will become like a blissful static with only some minor head interior muscle to work.
Another great advantage is you greatly reduce the chance of lung and trachea injuries.
Because you can relax the whole body, it will become totally comfortable with almost any pressure, you won't feel crushed any more, just relaxed and at home.
At your Service Connor!
Kars