That "double equalisation" you are mentioning is exactly how I used to have to equalise. I would clear my ears, and then forcibly frenzel the air into my forehead. Have you had a CTscan of your face? You might actually have some blockage in your frontal or maxillary sinus that you are having to push through. Before my surgery, My right maxillary sinus was almost 100% blocked and my left frontal sinus,well, had a cyst that would make it very difficult to clear. When I was younger (much younger), I had no troubles equalising. After my injury involving my head, my ability to breathe along with equalising became progressively worse.
If you get the surgery, remember that your body will probably produce an excess of phlegm. I am currently trying to find a way to get rid of this problem for myself. I eat no dairy products, and I am getting acupuncture treatments to try to get my body in balance. I am also making plans to see an allergy specialist which I hear from some people might determine the actual cause of excess mucous.
As far as equalising goes, the first three or four dives for me are effortless to equalize. What I have noticed now is that I end up frenzeling mucous into my eustacian tubes and after several dives, my ears become clogged,not my sinuses. Just a heads up.
If you are not suffering any other health problems (migraine headaches,sinus headaches, tooth infection,sinus infection,etc.) I would suggest trying to find the cause of the mucous/phlegm first. You might be surprised that you don't need surgery. If you get a CTscan and it looks like you got hit in the face by a charging bull,(like mine) than get the surgery the next time you have a few days to rest.
Remember that this is just my opinion and a brief account of what I currently experiencing. I am definitly not an expert at this.Good luck.
Tony
(I forgot to mention the otc remedies that I have tried. I have tried them all.It might be an individual thing.For me, clariton along with mucinex taken every twelve hours starting 48 hours before I dive has helped. The problem now is the weather is so nice, I am diving every couple of days and it seems like I have to stay on it. I went diving Sunday with no preparation beforehand. I took a blast of Afrin, stayed well hydrated, and made a couple dives to 30+meters without much problems. One thing I have noticed with forehead pressure is if I keep my mask fitted loosely and don't let it compress against my face, My forehead would clear much easier)