Stephan Whelan said:
However we do encourage discussions around this topic, just so long as it doesn't get too graphic. We do have numerous young members on these forums, both registered and lurkers so please bear that in mind when posting.
Then I am just going to describe my case...
I remember dicovering the joys of apnea in the sea or in a lake two years ago...
As a beginner I didn't dive deeper than 10-15 m ; I was not optimally weighted... I was a bit afraid of the dark and I didn't master the freediving techniques...
I remember of very short but intense feelings of joy when I began to ascent and see again the light of the sun... Being at the same time afraid and awkward made me appreciate at the highest point the value of being alive... The few seconds while ascending were intense, as if connecting me again to the sun, to the life,...
I must say that these intense feelings are beginner's memories and belong now to the past... as if mastering the freediving techniques, feeling more safe and secure were diminishing the intensity of my feelings...
Nowadays, I highly appreciate freediving but I pay more attention to the outside world ; I am more conscious of myself... ; in addition, I pay more attention to other freedivers in the water...
in conclusion : sexual arousal is connected with the charm of novelty....