Some good posting in this thread.
hi baiyoke, cool you took time. just some comments...
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.....check my reply to bills post maybe, to get a second view on my starting post.
Your reply to Bill:
questioning practices... the talk or the diving in pairs? i want to question the talk. this talk is much harder to put in a row with your basic freediving practices.
I have now read your reply to Bill: It is now more clear to me, that it is the "talk" that concerns you more than anything. Forum talk, instructor talk, how we talk safety in genral etc. if I understand you correct. That makes thing less confusing. And I agree that there are paradoxes. Because many people do dive alone, and they can't make any use of "n d a" in that practice...
But isn't it a bit like "don't do drugs"... Even though it is also clever to educate young people about how to minimize danger, if they have to try it, you can still say that the BEST advice is don't do it. It's a paradox to educate people anyway, about something illegal and dangerous (drugs), and probably a good thing. But the "don't do drugs" still aply, and is not the cause of drug-related deaths... Same thing with freediving... "n d a" is not a direct cause of unsafety. Ignorance and risk-taking is to blame... But that said, offcourse, like regarding drugs, the solo-diving safety could probably need more attention... without other people judging solo-divers... Because solo-diving is a little bit getting a "drug"-label ("illegal and dangerous"). I must admit that you have succeeded in describing a problem, I didn't see before: Would it fx be tolerated, if there was a subforum on deeperblue called "Solo-diving safety"... or does that go too much against the general "n d a" point of view... Very much like how it would be perceived, if a teacher in school started to teach about safe drug-experimentation... there's definately some... tension there...
Your reply to Bill:
about advice:
"never dive alone" is hardly an "advice". simply because it´s saying what not to do. - it´s much more a ban, a commandment, a paternalistic comment, a slogan repeated mindlessly over ond over again, a saying which is driven by fear of life.
To me it is an advice, even if said like a slogan. It is just a very general advice. Pointing to something. It is not to be taken as a lifesaver in itself. Perhaps that's why it is made a negotioation: "Never dive alone" is saying what to avoid. To find out more about what to do, people have to seek out more knowledge. Perhaps it would even be more unsafe if expressed "Always dive with a buddy" because THEN some people might stop there, and think they are safe... But that's highly speculative, an to me "n d a" is still a good advice...
The question is, what to do about all those who don't always follow it?
Allthough you also asked the question "what about those that DO follow the advice", are we sure they seek out more knowledge. My view is, that I believe most people do seek much more safety info. That is my impression. Perhaps I'm wrong. Same thing about instructors; I believe they seek to give plenty of general safety-knowledge. This is a sport where safety-concern seem to be at the center of the activity. That's my impression.
Funny thing is, when I read your first post, I didn't agree that "n d a" is paternalism and a "command", but after writing my last post, and reading the thread, I kind of agree that it is.. I just don't see it as big a problem as you do. Paternalism and comands/straight forward communication is sometimes called for.
You are right that there are some hidden dangers in having only a "n d a" consensus in a community, when many, many people don't. On the other hand, in a community where many people do something that regarded by many as dangerous, paternalism/commands/slogans and raised fingers are sometimes the most effective thing when trying to reach a hardcore group of people, who have always done things there way....
It's a complicated subject this one...
to be outspoken about this, like you are here, creates funny paradoxes. i am guilty of the same by trying to talk "talk". i feel good parts of the confusion you mentioned has it´s right and important function in such a discussion.
I agree, I run the same risk and paradoxes
But to be more clear: You are being quite paternalistic and commanding in your first post (my initial perception), allmost saying "Don't say never dive alone!!, it is unsafe!"... at the same time describing why people shouldn't say it, because it is commanding and paternalism. Approaching general and broadly accepted practices and ways of doing things, is best done more gradually I think... Depending on personal style of course, and if you want to create a "shock-effect"...But yes, you got the discussion you looked for
Still this thread could need a bit more... direction as I see it.
Edit: Actually it might be a general and broadly accepted practice to dive alone for some people or groups. So in that way "n d a" is actually perhaps percieved as equally confusing as I read your first post, for some people... You could be right about that. But it then raises the question: Who is the "n d a" aimed for? As a general shout-out to everybody adressing safety and trying to highten safety in freediving, I'm still pro "n d a" slogans. But other actions is desired also, I agree...