Um, ladies, the men posting on this thread have alluded to what you need to know, but I feel that I must summarize and clarify. All men have perv potential (unless they've joined a cult and have had their beans removed). ALL MEN. Even that sensitive, wire-rimmed glasses, coffee-shop "friend" of yours. And your gay friend, who always looks into your eyes when he speaks to you.....turn him loose in downtown Amsterdam and see where his eyes are focused.
I just thought you should know.
The only difference between a civilized man and a perv is that a civilized man has found something to distract himself. Those [men] who say it's "mind over matter" - they are liars too. Trying to give their intelligence more credit than it deserves. No man's brain is that powerful. Purposeful distraction is the only remedy.
Here is an exercise to give you a better idea of how we 'click'
1. Think of the number 8
2. Now don't think of the number 8
................how did you do? You failed, miserably!
So here's how you beat it (no pun intended):
3. To stop thinking of the number 8, think of the number 7 ( or 3, 14, 62.439......whatever - just NOT the number 8)
See how it works?
YOU (ladies) are the number 8! And when you are in a bikini, you are the number 8, lying on its side
.
We [men] can not
not think "improper" thoughts. But, we can think of something
else.
So, now that I've said this, if you are still naive enough to think that
I'm the perv, you are a fool. My keen self-awareness makes me one of the strong ones. It's the guy in denial you need to keep your eye on.
So, the next time you see a guy "staring into the sun" a bit longer than he should be, just say "HEY! Think of a different number!"
Good luck.
Ted